How Should We View Others?

Larissa Wuollet  |  The Shepherd’s Voice August/September 2025 - Home and Family Article –

Psalm 1 says, “Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers” (NIV).

Like most people, I’ve found myself where a believer should not be – in the seat of judgement or scorn. To scorn or judge is a type of mocking.

It’s easy to start thinking we would do better if we were in someone else’s shoes; it’s important to remember we all make mistakes that others could judge and criticize, too.

I need to be mindful of the voices I surround myself with – particularly with what I consume on social media. What we see and listen to can influence our thinking and views of those around us. These messages can plant seeds of doubt about matters of faith. 

When I am troubled by criticisms that I hear, I talk with my husband, friends and family quickly, rather than let the thoughts stew. Then I find peace, because sometimes God provides a straight answer through conversations or a sermon. Other times the answer is that I don’t need to understand every detail, and I can trust the voice of the Holy Spirit with that issue.

God will give you the help you need to remain a child of God, and even when we don’t have answers, we have the gospel to lean on. 

Things to visit about:

1. When a neighbor has trouble of some sort, is it easier to talk about them or to go talk to them, to offer help?

2. Does negative talk help or hurt the one who is troubled?

3. How can I be more approachable for one who is struggling?

4. What sort of conversations are we having at my table? Are we tearing down or building up?

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